![]() ![]() I get what you’re feeling, and it’s perfectly alright to feel that way.” Essentially, validation means saying to someone, “I hear you. Validation (in the context of interpersonal skills, anyway) is the act of recognizing and affirming the validity or worth of a person’s emotions. There are some real world examples that help solidify every concept or step and they feel natural with everyday verbage that I could see myself saying. The concept of validation is distilled down to layman’s language and it is easy to get. Since the author is not a therapist or has a bunch of letters after his name this reads well. I appreciate that being that I like my fluff in fiction and not self-help books. So this is short and sweet, the author gets to the point gives some examples and moves on. The author comes right out and says that nothing bothers him more than a book that takes 300 pages to say something that could have been said in 50. There are some great things about this book.įirst, is the length. And those who learn to listen are the most loved and respected.” “Being listened to and heard is one of the greatest desires of the human heart. I’ve only read a few self-help style books, but I’m trying to improve my communication style not only in my own relationship but in my new job as a supervisor, so I’ve been on the lookout for something that would fit into that category and this fit the bill. Give the principles and practices in this book a chance and you’ll be amazed at the difference they can make. ![]() Provide support and encouragement to others, even when you don’t know how to “fix” the problem.Help others become open to your point of view.Quickly resolve, or even prevent, arguments.Increase feelings of love, respect, and appreciation in your romantic relationships.Calm (and sometimes even eliminate) the concerns, fears, and uncertainties of others. ![]() Mastery of this simple skill will enable you to: Whether you’re looking to improve your relationship with your spouse, navigate difficult conversations at work, or connect on a deeper level with friends and family, this book delivers simple, practical, proven techniques for improving any relationship in your life. + 2018 IPA Book Award Winner What if making one tweak to your day-to-day conversations could immediately improve every relationship in your life? In this 3-hour, conversational read, you’ll discover the whats, whys, and hows of one of the most valuable (yet surprisingly little-known) communication skills-validation. ![]()
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